My friend cheated on her husband and i told him?
One of my friend is married to a great guy. He supports her full time as well as her mom and another family member who has many health problems in which he pays all costs on that as well. They have no children of their own. It was to the point of them almost filing bankruptcy because of the added medical care cost he has been paying. She has a settlement from a workers comp case coming to her soon. So instead of helping her husband who has been footing the bill for months she meets a man online. She signs a lease with him and decides to move out of state and leave the husband with all the bills to be with a man she has never met in person. So I did the unspeakable. I called her husbands best friend and told him what she planned. Of course he called her husband and told him. I fell like I have betrayed a friend but I am also glad that at least he knows whats going on so he can do a little damage control. Did I make the right decision? Yes i know all the details and this guy treats her like a queen. She has cheated on him several times and he keeps letting her come back. In my heart I feel I made the right choice but I still feel guilty because this girl was suppose to be a friend of mine.
I think you should have stayed out of it, he would have found out on his own.
Wow… you were REALLY jealous of her… With friends like you, who needs enemies??
Did you make the right decision? It’s your call…you know even more details than we do. Personally I would stay out of anybodys business of this magnitude but knowing what you did and having an emotional tie to it could sway my decision. You have to live with your conscience here…not me or anybody writing back to you this evening.
you did what was right she would want u to tell her if he was getting around
I’d say you did the right thing.
Why get involved? Apparently he likes it, he keeps walking back into the same crap with her.
im not sure what to say. I am a cheater but i dont like it when a gil or guy takes advantage of others. He shouldnt of been paying for everything. Now she gets money and then moves out of state. Its a tough call on this one. I dont think i would of told on her but thats just me.
you were kind of a weasel for telling the husband’s friend rather than telling the husband directly. You wanted to wreck havoc but didn’t have the guts to stand by your convictions by facing the husband.
Well you really should have stayed out of it, but I can see your point. He kept letting her come back though, so he sorta maybe needed to learn the hard way. I don’t know…. tough call. I don’t think I could be friends with someone like that for very long. I’d probably not worry about what she thinks.
Well honestly….it’s a thin line to walk. In most cases it’s best to just stay out of it but it sounds like you felt sorry for the guy, and I don’t blame you. I think you did the right thing in this case. Maybe it screwed her up, but just look at what she was trying to do to him! Besides, I personally wouldn’t want to be friends with someone who would treat another person like that.
i would want someone to tell me if my spouse was cheating on me. i think it was a good call.
is your call …but i think you should of stay out of it …but then again if it was me i would want some one to tell me ..i don’t know is a hard thing
lol u did the right thing personally i would drop a friend that was like that like a deadly disease i hate cheaters and i think all cheaters must die
THis is not your marriage, you should keep your nose out of that
which you have no business being involved in. COming to a message
board looking for approval of your actions is indication you KNOW
you DID NOT do the “right thing”, lost a friend, and screwed up a
marriage that was working for the two people involved… of which
you were not one. Get over this, realize your involvement was not
necessary and move on. Screw up your own life, and leave the others
alone.
to me she never were your friend, sorry i mean you never were her friend.
and i think it is not okay to get involved in someone else’s business.
did you saw them doing sex in bed?, did you see it with your eyes? if i ask to you to give me any physical evidence, do you have it?
YOU DIDN’T DO THE RIGHT CHOICE, your choice was to get aside and let them live their lifes as they wanna live it.
you did the right thing, ppl are only telling you that you should of stayed out of it because they are cheaters them selves and dont wanna get busted
Sounds like you made the right decision.
Good for you.
I don’t usually advise getting involved but
this case sounds like you did the right thing.
i would never stoop to such a low level! never….i hope you and the friend werent very close, oh, obviously, you werent…you can forget that one!
I think you did the right thing. I would have directly spoken with him though. Who cares about her, she’s a twat. I wouldn’t even want to be friends with someone like that.
right call Leo, props